Kassidy Denise Christina Toebes-Tomlinson

1996 - 1997
LocationBritish Columbia, Canada
Age24 days
Cause of DeathPneumonia
Date of Birth10/12/1996
Date of Death03/01/1997
Visitors3,965 since 11/09/2008
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♥ Kassidy ♥ Denise ♥ Christina ♥
December 10, 1996 - January 3, 1997.
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My beautiful daughter, Kassidy, was born at 8:36am on December 10,1996. She was 19 inches long and weighed 8lbs 4oz. She was a gorgeous baby with dark eyes and dark hair who was very alert for a newborn. She had the sweetest coo and her big brother, Kyle, adored her. She would cry and he would run to her saying 'baby' or 'baby crying' in his little 19 month old language. Kassidy would watch as Kyle played nearby.
We spent Christmas 1996 together, myself and my children. Kassidy slept through most of the excitement, but she was a newborn so I expected that.
I spent New Years changing diapers and cleaning up baby spit up and I wouldn't trade that time for all the riches in the world.
On the evening of Thursday January 2, 1997, I did what I would normally do. I watched my favorite program "ER" and a bit of the news on tv. I changed and fed Kassidy and we went to bed. When I woke up at 5am on January 3, 1997 she was already gone. They say she passed somewhere around 2am. They say it was pneumonia that took her from me.
Her daddy, Jason, and I were no longer together. He only got a chance to hold her once. I know he really wanted a daughter and he was so happy to be a daddy. She looked very much like him. When she passed I know he was devastated as well.
I miss her so very much, even all these years later. I am so blessed to have had her in my life for the 3 weeks and 3 days she was with me. I will treasure that time always. She was and is a huge part of who I am today.

Kassidy now has many brothers and sisters who wish she was here so they could play with her.

On Mommy's side Kassidy has a big brother, 2 little brothers, a little sister, and a big step-brother.

On Daddy's side Kassidy has a little brother and a little step-sister.





Child Loss Poem
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When you lose a child,
your life doesn't just change,
you're shattered on the inside,
blown to pieces, your heart broken.
It takes a long time for those
pieces to come back together again.
I'm not looking for your pity,
it's better for me to talk,
than to keep everything all inside.
I don't want you to think I'm selfish,
but can't you see how much I'm hurting?
Sometimes I take out my baby's things,
smell then, caress them, hug and kiss them,
and rock them until the tears stop falling.
Please don't turn a blind eye to me.
If you think it's too painful for you,
multiply that by infinity and you might
have a vague idea of how much pain I am in.
I did not ask for this to happen,
i do ask for your love and support.
If you can't think of anything to say,
then just listen to me,
let me borrow your shoulder.
Surely you are stronger than I am
and you can help me by simply being there.
~author unknown

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Little Angel Girl - by Unknown Author

God sent an Angel to the Earth...
The sweetest Angel too
And for such a tiny little thing,
She had so much to do.

She knew she did not have
Much time upon this earth to stay,
So she did not waste a second;
She got started right away.

Her eyes were bright and sparkly,
She took in every turn.
She did not miss a single thing,
Because Angel came to learn!

God sent her here to touch the
Hearts of those he could not reach...
She taught them courage, strength and faith,
Because Angel came to teach.

Her tiny little body
Was so full of God above,
You felt it when you held her,
Because Kassidy came to love.

In 24 short days she managed
What many never will.
When she went home to Jesus,
Her purpose was fulfilled.

She learned and taught, loved and played,
She learned his lessons well.
I know he was so proud of her
When she went home to dwell.

But when I miss her OH-SO-MUCH,
I can almost hear God say,
Please understand, her work was done...
Kassidy did not come to stay.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KASSIDY

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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Kassidy
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.

We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KASSIDY
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bigs hugs from me to you and your family
and friends that you miss you ever day but
in our hearts forever you will not be forgotin
all my love hugs and xxxx from me Sylvie
mommy of Samantha Belanger and
Granddaughter of Albert and Marie-Jeanne
Belanger take care bye for now.
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Sylvie Belanger

December 10, 2010

Happy Birthday In Heaven - by Winnie Lovett

"Happy Birthday Kassidy"
It's sure to be the best one yet,
Though you left us here behind.
Did you think that we'd forget?

Your cake this year, will surely be,
A beauty to behold.
With the icing made of Silver,
And the candles made of Gold.

Yes, your birthday in Heaven,
Will be such a grand affair.
And I know you'll look so lovely,
With a halo in your hair.

The Angels will come from everywhere,
To sing your birthday song.
And I know they'll be so happy,
That you've joined, God's Happy Throng.

No I can't send a card this year,
Or give a gift so fine.
So I'll just send a special prayer,
To that wonderful Daughter of yours.

Joanne Mum To Alex And Ciara

December 10, 2009

It's coming closer to that time again, Kassidy. People are talking about Christmas and even starting to decorate their homes. Christmas always makes me think of you, my beautiful Christmas Baby. You would be turning 13 this December, a milestone age. I miss you everyday and wish you were here.
Love always,
Mommy.

Krista Kassidysmommy (Mummy)

November 4, 2009

Hi Sweetie, I miss you so very much. It's been so many years and I still miss you so much. I think of you all the time and I wonder what you would be like today as a 12 year old. I wonder what you would look like and who your friends would be. Your sister, Kayleigh, wishes you were here. She really misses not having her sister here with her. The boys all wish you were here too. We all wish you were here with us.
Happy Easter my sweet Christmas Baby.
Love Mommy

Krista Kassidysmommy (Mummy)

April 14, 2009

happy birthday

x x x

Claire Bibb

December 10, 2008

Kassidy

You were in my life
For a short while
A gift of love
To be cherished forever

Your dark brown hair
Your curious dark eyes
Your beautiful face
Your wonderful cry

You are my daughter
A daughter so dear
Too young to die
But you were taken from me anyway

I miss you so much
Princess Kassidy
Forever in my heart
Is where you'll always be

written by Kassidy's Mommy, Krista.

Krista Kassidysmommy (Mummy)

December 10, 2008

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Amanda Shaves

October 24, 2008

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Amanda Shaves

October 20, 2008

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