| Location | British Columbia, Canada |
| Age | 24 days |
| Cause of Death | Pneumonia |
| Date of Birth | 10/12/1996 |
| Date of Death | 03/01/1997 |
| Visitors | 2,389 since 11/09/2008 |
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♥ Kassidy ♥ Denise ♥ Christina ♥
December 10, 1996 - January 3, 1997.
~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~
My beautiful daughter, Kassidy, was born at 8:36am on December 10,1996. She was 19 inches long and
weighed 8lbs 4oz. She was a gorgeous baby with dark eyes and dark hair who was very alert for a
newborn. She had the sweetest coo and her big brother, Kyle, adored her. She would cry and he would
run to her saying 'baby' or 'baby crying' in his little 19 month old language. Kassidy would watch
as Kyle played nearby.
We spent Christmas 1996 together, myself and my children. Kassidy slept through most of the
excitement, but she was a newborn so I expected that.
I spent New Years changing diapers and cleaning up baby spit up and I wouldn't trade that time for
all the riches in the world.
On the evening of Thursday January 2, 1997, I did what I would normally do. I watched my favorite
program "ER" and a bit of the news on tv. I changed and fed Kassidy and we went to bed. When I woke
up at 5am on January 3, 1997 she was already gone. They say she passed somewhere around 2am. They
say it was pneumonia that took her from me.
Her daddy, Jason, and I were no longer together. He only got a chance to hold her once. I know he
really wanted a daughter and he was so happy to be a daddy. She looked very much like him. When she
passed I know he was devastated as well.
I miss her so very much, even all these years later. I am so blessed to have had her in my life for
the 3 weeks and 3 days she was with me. I will treasure that time always. She was and is a huge part
of who I am today.
Kassidy now has many brothers and sisters who wish she was here so they could play with her.
On Mommy's side Kassidy has a big brother, 2 little brothers, a little sister, and a big
step-brother.
On Daddy's side Kassidy has a little brother and a little step-sister.
Child Loss Poem
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When you lose a child,
your life doesn't just change,
you're shattered on the inside,
blown to pieces, your heart broken.
It takes a long time for those
pieces to come back together again.
I'm not looking for your pity,
it's better for me to talk,
than to keep everything all inside.
I don't want you to think I'm selfish,
but can't you see how much I'm hurting?
Sometimes I take out my baby's things,
smell then, caress them, hug and kiss them,
and rock them until the tears stop falling.
Please don't turn a blind eye to me.
If you think it's too painful for you,
multiply that by infinity and you might
have a vague idea of how much pain I am in.
I did not ask for this to happen,
i do ask for your love and support.
If you can't think of anything to say,
then just listen to me,
let me borrow your shoulder.
Surely you are stronger than I am
and you can help me by simply being there.
~author unknown
It's coming closer to that time again, Kassidy. People are talking about Christmas and even starting to decorate their homes. Christmas always makes me think of you, my beautiful Christmas Baby. You would be turning 13 this December, a milestone age. I miss you everyday and wish you were here.
Love always,
Mommy.
Hi Sweetie, I miss you so very much. It's been so many years and I still miss you so much. I think of you all the time and I wonder what you would be like today as a 12 year old. I wonder what you would look like and who your friends would be. Your sister, Kayleigh, wishes you were here. She really misses not having her sister here with her. The boys all wish you were here too. We all wish you were here with us.
Happy Easter my sweet Christmas Baby.
Love Mommy
Kassidy
You were in my life
For a short while
A gift of love
To be cherished forever
Your dark brown hair
Your curious dark eyes
Your beautiful face
Your wonderful cry
You are my daughter
A daughter so dear
Too young to die
But you were taken from me anyway
I miss you so much
Princess Kassidy
Forever in my heart
Is where you'll always be
written by Kassidy's Mommy, Krista.
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thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today.
I asked what makes a Mother
And I know I heard him say...
A mother has a baby
This we know is true.
But, God, can you be a mother
when your baby is not with you?
Yes, you can He replied,
With confidence in His voice.
I give many women babies
When they leave is not their choice.
Some I send for a lifetime,
And others just for a day.
And some I send to feel your womb,
But there's no need to stay.
I just don't understand this God,
I want my baby here.
He took a breath and cleared His throat
And then I saw a tear.
I wish I could show you
What your child is doing today.
If you could see your child smile
With other children and say:
"We go to earth to learn our lessons
Of love and life and fear.
My mommy loved me oh so much
I got to come straight here.
I feel so lucky to have a mom
Who has so much love for me.
I learned my lessons very quickly,
My mommy set me free.
I miss my mommy Oh so much,
But I visit every day.
When she goes to sleep
On her pillow is where I lay.
I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek
And I whisper in her ear.
Mommy don't be sad today,
I'm your baby and I'm here."
So, you see my dear sweet one,
Your children are not blue.
Your babies are here in MY home,
They'll be at Heaven's gate waiting for you.
So now you see what makes a mother,
It's the feeling in your heart.
It's the love you had so much of,
Right from the very start.
Though some on earth may not realize you are a mother,
Until their time is done.
They'll be up here with Me one day,
And they'll know you were the best one!
so sorry for your precious loss xx
love a angel mum
hi
so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby girl.
my love to and your children
ibrahims mummy xxx
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